![]() ![]() I understand not wanting to talk about the details of your kink HS, but I wish you had. I mean, is it chastity play? Are you wanting to have your dick locked in a cage for hours at a time? Are you into water-sports and hope to talk your partner into either peeing on you or being peed on? Forced Femme? Vore? Puppy play? Adult babies? DD/LG play? The details you give are so vague and so broadly applicable that you’ve all but guaranteed that people’s imaginations are going to fill in the gaps – often with the wildest and weirdest shit they can think of. Notice how quickly things go from “weird but whatever” to stuff that dials the squick factor to 11 and snaps the knob off? That’s what happens when you’re talking about a polarizing topic like sex and kinks in the absence of actual information, people will very quickly assume the most dramatic – and often most lurid, disturbing or personally repulsive – options. ![]() Now, I say this because this is precisely why you want to actually talk about this with your partner. Otherwise, if you’re dating someone who’s mostly into original recipe sex and doesn’t have much experience with kink or the kink scene, then when they hear about kink in general or a specific kink, then they’re much more likely to leap to the wildest and weirdest. That’s not only going to taint how they see your kinks, but it also means that they’re going to be much more likely to be responding to inaccurate ideas about what your kink entails. ![]()
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